Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the masculine’s sexual organ and it translates to “pillar of light.” In Tantra, the Lingam is honored and respected just as the feminine’s yoni or vagina. They both are powerful channels of sexual energy — LIFE FORCE.

I am sharing from a feminine perspective, so definitely take only that which resonates.
There is a lot of toxic masculinity in the world, and this has caused sexuality to also become toxic. And I’m not here to place the blame on men, women also have toxic tendencies when it comes to sexuality, so we’re all to blame here. This is why it’s so important for each of us to connect with our bodies, cultivating our own sexual fire, before even attempting to merge with another person. There is so much power, a beautiful alchemical process that happens in the act of love-making. I see a lot of women really connecting to their bodies, honoring their divine temple, but not a lot of men. I feel that a lot of masculines are afraid of connecting to their spirituality. They are afraid to awaken their divine essence to fully immerse themselves in the experience of a true love connection. Why? Well, because this type of connection triggers a process that requires deep emotional healing, so it’s often easier to dismiss it and take the easy way out by connecting to people that require no emotional attachment.

Man, you too are a sacred being, honor that. Honor your divine temple. As a woman, a powerful channel of divine feminine energy, believe me when I say that sex is meaningless when the intention is only to reach orgasm. What women want is connection, tenderness, gentle touch, a conscious man. A man that is not afraid to lay naked, not so much physically, but in emotion. The channel of energy that opens when a man is able to connect with his heart is extremely potent. When you are connecting with a woman, or another man, with a fully awakened heart, the cock becomes a much more spiritual tool to awaken the divine essence of those involved, just as powerful as the feminine’s yoni.
Man, it’s time you start seeing yourself as the powerful divine being you are. No more shitty connections for the sake of pleasure, you can do that on your own. That is actually so much better because you are learning to connect with your own body, which in turn allows you to recognize every single beautiful thing about yourself. Nothing beats that! It’s time you rise to honor the sacredness of your physical temple.
~ Miroslava Casiano
THE METAPHYSICAL CHICK